The value of emotional intelligence in technical writing
IQ predicts how well you'll do in your school years and how much salary you can make over the course of a career because it says what job you can get... but once you're in those professions everybody else is about as smart as you are, and that is where emotional intelligence kicks in. - Daniel Goleman
Many technical writers are fairly empathic people. To be good at our job, we need to care about user experiences, we need to be able to imagine different scenarios and meet different needs. I know that I am sometimes better at understanding the needs of others more than my own. Other peoples needs are interesting puzzles, my own needs can feel more like irritants that get in the way of me doing stuff!
But, it turns out, if you don't honor all the aspects of emotional intelligence you're selling yourself short and creating problems for yourself. As Ramona Hacker points out, too much empathy can sometimes be a barrier to full emotional intelligence. The noise of so much empathy can drown out too many other parts or give the illusion of strong emotional intelligence when there are aspects that need more work.